I knew how much I was enjoying The Invite by how uncomfortable it was making me. The way the characters spoke to each other, injuring themselves and each other made me cringe and react. It treated its characters a flawed human beings in imperfect relationships and it did it all with a sense of humour and heart.
Wilde is an exciting film maker who makes films that are fascinating. Some have worked better than others but The Invite is especially interesting. It has to walk a fairly challenging line. It could have easily fallen into farce or become too heavy. But Wilde and her cast keep just the right balance of humour and pathos to make this story of one eventful evening work.
I appreciated how much the film treated its characters with respect. While recognizing the inherent humour in their humanness, The Invite still gives each character the space and integrity to be real people with all their flaws and strengths. The smart and funny script by McCormack and Jones has been compared to Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolfe and that's not much hyperbole. There is sensitivity and insight going on here and it hits more than most films do. It's characters are awkward and sometimes cruel; they are vulnerable and sometimes petty. But they are honest.
The Invite is the sort of film that gets you thinking about relationships, both through asking some challenging questions but also through evoking real emotional stakes. I appreciated that its ambigous ending doesn't attempt to necessarily solve anything but reminds us of the love that we have even when things may be falling apart.
The Invite
Starring: Seth Rogen, Olivia Wilde, Penélope Cruz, Edward Norton
Director: Olivia Wilde
Writers: Will McCormack, Rashida Jones






